The Djao'Mor'Terra Collective (fayanora) wrote,
The Djao'Mor'Terra Collective

Name change

I tried to legally change my name a few years back. The place trying to help me told me to get a passport first for some reason. I got a quarter the way through the form and got overwhelmed because legalese is a language I can't begin to wrap my brain around. I needed someone to hold my hand but I was too overwhelmed to even ask anyone, like not even the place helping me. Then the longer I waited the more awkward it would have been to go back and admit I needed help.

Well today I mentioned something to Victor who wheedled the rest of the story out of me. He uh... well, he transitioned from male to female and then, for health reasons, had to transition back from female to male. (Kept the breasts, though.) So he's changed his name TWICE. He offered to help me. Apparently, and I didn't know this, but there's some way to do it for free, and his reaction to the bit about the passport was "What the fuck???"

Anyway, we're all too busy this week. So that will start next week. :D

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